Am i friendly?

                                             
                                      
                                          Play station,movies,books and friends. The one thing that is common among the four is that they are good time-passes. Yes, this is how i have been seeing my so called close friends. Then think the way i would have treated my not-so-close friends. 




                                               The reason why i felt like writing about friends was that i was taunted by my friends. Though taunting is such a common incident that we even take turns in targeting someone among our friends,but this time i sensed something unusual. My buddies face seemed to say YOU-F****R-THIS-IS-TIME-FOR-REVENGE. I dont know whether i have treated them so badly or are they so bad. I guess Newton would have experienced the same because of which he would have written his 3rd law.






                                           The one question that have been haunting me for years is ' do i have a close friend?'.Afraid of answering NO to the question , i have skipped it all these years in my mind.Atleast now i got the courage to answer the question.Ofcourse the answer is a big NO.If i had any, i would not be writing this blog.I would have shared my feelings with him.But some poor guys do not even know that  they do not have close friends. Do you want to check ? then try answering these questions




                                              1) Have you ever said about your family problems(if you have any) to your close friend?       
                                                   


                                              2)Have you ever discussed about your true love with that friend?


                                               3)Have you ever sincerely advised him when you know that he is leading a  wrong path?
  


                                                 4)Have you ever spent money for him without any HESITATION?     
                                                 


                                               5)Atleast have you ever felt " this is the guy who would walk along with me in all my difficult situations?"




                                     If the answer is YES, then it is well and good. If it is NO, then you have just joined the club of self-centered people in which i am a prominent member.Its time for our club members to introspect because there is surely a problem with our attitude.I am damn jealous on my father and brother who have handful of ACTUAL close friends.How could i, having the same genes as them did not inherit all their good characters?  May be this attitude problem is the problem of my generation.




                                         Anyway it is high time that we expunge the concept ' friends are just meant to accompany us for the movies, boost our new year eve enjoyment , gives company when we tease someone etc etc. They are really worth a LOT LOT more than that.






                                                                                      by prem